Matthew 6:12 “and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”

If you have ever thought much about this verse, no doubt you’ve wrestled with whether or not Jesus is saying that the Believer’s being forgiven of our sins, is dependent upon our forgiveness of other’s sins. That forgiveness with God is at least in part a form of quid pro quo. And that in the end, our salvation is works based and not grace based.

Given the balance of New Testament teaching, we would be faced with a true contradiction if this is the case. So we do need to sort out what is really being taught here. We especially need to see it in terms of our overall theme of how the elements of this prayer together are calculated to re-tune the Believer’s heart with the heart of God each time we enter into it.

Forgiveness is a huge category in Scripture. The entire Old Testament sacrificial system is built upon it, and as Peter and Paul make it central to all the preaching in Acts and in their letters: Acts 10:43 “To him (Jesus) all the prophets bear witness that everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name.”

Mankind’s greatest need is that we be forgiven of our sins in order to be reconciled back to the Father. We share the universal condemnation that we want the right of supremacy over our own lives and goods, rather than being submitted to the rightful Lordship of the God who created us for Himself. We want to say what is right and what is wrong for ourselves without His imposition. We want to justify ourselves for all of our actions, words, thoughts and attitudes irrespective of God’s requirements. We want to be god unto ourselves, being responsible to no one else but ourselves. And as a result, every other sin we commit flows from this central corruption.

So it is, the plain teaching of the Bible is that we can only be forgiven for this cosmic rebellion, through faith in the atoning sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross who died in our place. Thus the resurrected Jesus Himself told the Disciples in Luke 24:46–47 “[A]nd (He) said to them, “Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, and that repentance for the forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem.”

So what are we to make of this? First and foremost (and I plan to come back to this topic again next time) – that an unforgiving, grudge-bearing, bitter spirit is so irreconcilable with the Spirit of Christ, that as long as we entertain such, we cannot live in harmony with the Triune God we claim to love and serve. We cannot be tuned to Him. For such an heart-set is in direct opposition to the Gospel of grace we claim to have been saved by. That a spirit or attitude of unforgiveness is wholly antithetical to the Spirit of God, and to the message and work of the Cross.

No wonder then, that Jesus, in teaching us to pray so as to be tuned to His own heart and mind, directs us not only to seek forgiveness regularly in recognition of our own ongoing battle against indwelling sin and our constant failures in that regard – but that as the love of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit overflow so as to provide forgiveness for all who believe in the Cross of Christ – so being ourselves forgiven of cosmic crimes, forgive others out of the abundance of our having been forgiven. We do not forgive others out of our own largess, but out of that which we have received.

Do you remember Jesus’ encounter at the Pharisee’s house in Luke 7? A woman with a bad reputation made her way into the gathering, and anointed Jesus with perfume, weeping, kissing His feet and wiping them with her hair. The Pharisee was indignant at her garish display. But Jesus rebuked the man by pointing out that she acted out of love, knowing the forgiveness of her many sins. The Pharisee, thinking he had little to be forgiven of, didn’t love much either, and even ignored some common courtesies toward Jesus.

The more we try to view ourselves as not needing forgiveness, the more we will need to harp on other’s sins, and in direct proportion, will fail to love Christ.

What a Savior He is. He gave His very life, that we might have the full and free forgiveness of God Himself. In comparison, what microscopically little I have ever had to give in forgiving others.

Father forgive me.

As right now, I ask you to lay nothing to the charge of anyone else on my account. For my sins have been many, perpetual and truly evil against you. Their’s, have been so little against me.

Tune me to your heart afresh today.