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  • Starving for affection – Proverbs 27:5-7

    August 27th, 2011

    Proverbs 27:5–7 (ESV)

    5 Better is open rebuke

    than hidden love.

    6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend;

    profuse are the kisses of an enemy.

    7 One who is full loathes honey,

    but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.

    These three verses show three different aspects of the same concept. At the bottom of it all is the reality that the pain of being totally ignored is so great, that one would rather have a negative reaction from others, than no reaction at all.

    Many a parent withholds (for whatever reasons) signs of true affection and acceptance from their children. And little will goad them more into misbehavior than such an environment. For at least scoldings and punishments make them noticed. At least then they have some sense of impact and that their presence is not meaningless to others. But when ignored, they are bereft of the love they so desperately desire – and thus to a starving soul, even the bitterness of a rebuke is at least something – even if it isn’t honey. It’ll do. The love may indeed be there – but if it is not expressed, do not be surprised if the child (and even later – the adult who has been raised this way) is found repeating outrageous behavior so as to be interacted with on an emotional level.

    Now because this is true, such souls are liable to be drawn away into the snares of wicked people who would consume them like prey – because they will pour on profuse kisses where none have been before. We make them sitting ducks for sexual predators and others who would abuse them in relationships. The wounds of a “friend” are faithful. We know instinctively when we are being corrected in loving correction and when not. And if we correct our children only because they annoy us or embarrass us or disrupt us, the emotional vacuum left will indiscriminately draw in others who will take the utmost advantage of them by holding out the carrot stick of affection.

    The one who is well loved and accepted and KNOWS it, because it has been communicated and demonstrated, will be guarded against the predators. But when left emotionally emaciated by their parents (husbands and wives be warned here too), will seek to fill that void with anything they can – anything or anybody that pretends to offer to meet that need. They will gravitate to the most toxic people, if there appears the slightest promise of genuine affection there.

    This is precisely where John 3:16 comes into play. How is my soul to be fully satisfied in the love of God? In the cross! He SO loved us, that He gave His only Son. He did not love us from afar, silently or without demonstration – He sent His Son. He sent His Son to die – in our place. To take our wrath. To rebuke us for our sin, but in such a way that His faithfulness in love abounds. To make a way TO Him, the way that had been shut up by our sin in the Garden. To give us Heaven’s Sweetness, that we might not try to satiate our desires by consuming the pig’s pods of this world. And if we will take our fill of Him – how quickly desires for sin and the attempts to satisfy our souls on the dregs of this life will lose their attractiveness to us. We are fully accepted in the Beloved. And loved beyond measure. And that, in full display at Calvary.  

  • The Wounded Spirit – Tim Keller

    August 24th, 2011

    Eschewing the false reductionism offered by those who make very complex things like grief and depression and a crushed spirit oversimplified – Keller excels even his ordinary excellence in this exposition of Proverbs 13:12 and other like passages. This is a MUST listen.

    CLICK HERE:

  • My Mom’s body died today. Her soul went to be with Her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ..

    August 23rd, 2011

    Romans 5:1–6 (ESV) Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. 2 Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3 More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. 6 For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.

    My Mom (our Mom – the 4 of us siblings, and numerous grandkids and great grandkids) went to be with Jesus @ 2:05 this morning.

    She was 88. Dad is 90.

    As one kind friend wrote – he was sorry for us in our “temporary” separation.

    That is just plain glorious – isn’t it?

    This is what it means to be a Christian in a way that is singly the most diametrically opposed to the world – death is an enemy which is at last overcome. And that, not as the World would see it as a supposed mere end to physical suffering, but because resurrection awaits.

    Because those who know Christ rise to meet Him in that veiled moment they pass from this life fully into His.

    And in it, we overcome in such remarkable likeness to our Lord – or rather, we see how truly like us He was in His humanity.

    He showed us that if we are one with the Father, we can die in weakness, and that is no shame.

    We can agonize over death as He did in the Garden – and that is no shame.

    We can cry the cry of “I thirst” in the torment of the moment – without shame.

    We can tremble -with no shame.

    Why? Because of our Hope.

    Not the “I hope so” kind of hope – the hope that is a living, real anticipation of the good things to come because of the goodness of the One who promised them, and who cannot fail to love His own with perfect, infinite love.

    Mom’s last hours were fitful. It is not always so for the saints. For many it is very different. For her, it was hard. And that’s OK.

    In the long hours of Friday night into Saturday, as it became clear in the hospital that she was failing more rapidly than we thought, I had some precious time alone with her.

    She said she needed to confess something to me, to get it put right. Once done, I thought it seemed a release to her.

    In fact it wasn’t a confession at all. It was setting the record straight for her.

    And though it is exceedingly intimate – I still want to to share it. For it points right back to the way Jesus enters into our humanity, and allows us as His redeemed, to enter into the secret places of His own suffering.

    Mom & Dad got pregnant on their wedding night. But what set some tongues to wagging, was that my sister, was born a month premature at less than 5 pounds. Nevertheless, in the eyes of some, it was eight months and not nine. She always felt bad, that people questioned their pre-marital purity. She had felt shamed by others – over what was in truth pure. And she wondered why the Lord had let that settle on her for the 65 years they were married.

    I had no specific answer, of course. Providence is often as mysterious as it is sovereign and good. But when she spoke of it, I could only think that Jesus had let her taste just a bit of the stigma that surrounded His own infinite purity in His virgin birth. That it was not meant to be millstone, as much as a point of intimacy with Him. A place where He could say to her through circumstances – “Lillian, child, come taste some of what I entered into for you, for all the redeemed, in a secret place.”

    I think we often fail to find Him in our own griefs – forgetting how He so fully entered into ours, so much that He died for the sin behind them. We fail, as those redeemed from the curse, to recognize that the suffering we still endure is still due to sin forgiven – and yet we still endure it. Because He endured for OUR sin, and none of His own.

    It seemed to settle her at that moment. And I left wanting to take more advantage of what the Savior allows me to suffer. That I might know Him better.

    But now, there is no more suffering for Mom. She experiences an intimacy with The Savior right now that is all rooted in the everlasting bliss of resurrection, instead of the former glory of the incarnation.

    Fall headlong into His kindness Mom – plunge in and luxuriate in it until we are all together again.

    I love you: Reid

  • Delighting in the Lord

    August 18th, 2011

    Psalm 37:4 (ESV) Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

    “Why are pastors and preachers always bugging me to read my Bible and pray and go to church? I thought salvation was by grace alone through faith alone. But you’re always on my case to do this and that – its like God won’t be happy with me unless I do these, and then you tell me to believe He’s happy with me and I’m accepted in Christ – which is it?”

    As a Pastor/preacher, I find myself in that place of urging others (even as I need to remind myself) that such fundamentals are so necessary to the Christian life. And I do fear at times that such exhortations are received or at least heard like my fictional questioner in the first paragraph hears them. As conflicting with the Gospel of grace. That God needs something more to be pleased with us.

    The truth is, the issue here isn’t making God happy with us. The constant urging to do the hard work of developing a consistent prayer and Bible study life, of taking pains to be with the saints in worship, challenging sin, serving others and evangelism has more to do with the nature of combating the horrific effects of sin within our own souls. We are so wrecked by the Fall, that we CANNOT find our delight in the Lord – without constant attention to it. And when we fail to be delighted in Him, we will either simply grow discouraged or indifferent – or seek our delight in the sinful and destructive.

    The Human being was designed as a totally dependent creature. We do not self-generate spiritual life and vitality. It must be fed, watered, weeded and attended to. If not, our souls will grow emaciated and weak before we know it. We cannot sustain ourselves then in the face of the temptations and trials of this life. We will soon be disillusioned, depressed, resentful, overwhelmed and defeated. God will grow distant. Not because He is far away, but because we have severed true fellowship in our neglect of spiritual matters.

    The Psalm paints a graphic picture. When God is our delight, and we pursue that – we WILL get our desire – Him! But when we neglect the things which draw us near to Him, the hearing of His voice in His Word, and the pouring out of our burdens in prayer, and the lifting up of our souls in the thanksgiving of worship – then these things soon become weights. And the deceptiveness of our own hearts will lead us to view them as means to gain God’s love and approval, rather than means to stay enjoying the wonder of His love and approval in the face of hardship.

    As J. Vernon MaGee used to say: “where do I find God? wherever I left Him.”

  • Prayer, Spiritual Discipline and Freedom in Christ

    August 5th, 2011

    One of the tensions which rears its ugly head a lot lately (at least
    in my experience) is the inability to reconcile spiritual disciplines
    (like a regular personal prayer or Bible study time) with the freedom
    we have in Christ. In this sermon, John Piper takes the “legalism” fang out
    of it, by putting things in a right frame. It is Biblical wisdom
    fleshed out in a very fine way on a most important topic. Do take the
    time to listen. You’ll be richer for it.

    http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/praying-in-the-closet-and-in-the-spirit

  • What do we say to the Norway Massacre?

    July 29th, 2011

    What do we say?

    In the aftermath of the shocking tragedy last week in Norway – serious reflection is called for on many fronts. Not the least of these, must be cast in the light of how many Christians cried out in the aftermath of the 9/11 Twin Towers attacks, and other terrorist assaults linked to Islamic activists. So many of us thought (and some asked) “where are the Islamic spokespeople condemning these actions?” Rightly so.

    And now, its our turn.

    On July 22, 2011, Anders Behring Breivik engineered and carried both a bombing of government buildings in Oslo Norway – killing 8 people, and then murdered 68 more people (wounding 96) at a youth camp on the island of UtØya.

    According to Breivik’s 1500 page (+ or -) manifesto “2083 – A European Declaration of Independence”, his actions were aimed in large part to stem the tide of growing Islamization in Europe.

    All this – he claims – flows out of his Christianity.

    So let us respond firstly this way: Biblical Christianity in no uncertain terms has absolutely nothing to do with such actions, and as Christians we not only condemn these actions, but stand at the forefront of calling for the highest performance of justice in punishing these wicked and heinous crimes.

    To take up arms in this way in the name of Christ and His Church, is to strike at the very core of the Gospel. Both this, and every other such violent action carried out supposedly in the name of Christianity is reprehensible in the highest degree. No spiritual battle can be won by the use of physical weapons. The Kingdom of Christ conquers the hearts and souls of humankind through the preaching of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and His substitutionary death on the cross of Calvary to atone for human sin. It is a Gospel of God’s free, unmerited grace – NOT of conversion by the sword, or the gun or the threat of death, ill-treatment or any other such means. Jesus took no man’s life. He gave His own in our place. The Gospel bids us look at His cross, His bearing God’s just wrath on humankind, His death, burial and resurrection. The last “enemy” He will conquer is death itself. Killing others is as antithetical to His kingdom and plan as can possibly be imagined.

    Anders Breivik’s actions are not remotely Christianity, even at its worst. It is human sin using religion as a justification for its twisted, un-Biblical ends. We condemn it.

    Dare I speak for Christianity so boldly? I do. Because the teaching of the Bible is so absolutely clear as to be unmistakable in this regard. “The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.” 1 Timothy 1:5 (ESV)

    Let us speak secondly to the families of these victims. We weep for you. Our hearts agonize for you. We grieve even above the horror and the loss at the way it was done and in the name of the Savior we serve. We are so very sorry for your losses and the pain which will never be gone. For the invasion of your hearts and minds – for the theft of your peace and safety. Our God teaches us that no neighbor of ours should ever fear harm from a Christian. That these events shake that safety is a double tragedy, for it not only robs you of your loved ones, it makes one look at all religion as suspect. It is only logical. And while we can do so little tangibly to soothe your savaged hearts – we will grieve and weep with you. And vow never to forget. We want you to know the Savior who died for sin, so that we might be reconciled to God – and to know the hope of the promise that one day, in His rule and reign, there will never be any such tragedy again. We love you – as best we can from afar. But we cannot love you at all as the Father loves you. He draws near to the brokenhearted. May you find Him near now. May you come to know Him in His love, grace, mercy, forgiveness and comfort. His Son was brutally murdered in Jerusalem 2000 years ago. And the cosmos still vibrates from the travesty. But in His death, for all who believe, there is the promise of the forgiveness of sins, and reconciliation to God the Father, so as to become His own sons and daughters ourselves.

    Thirdly – we must address Mr. Breivik. Sir, I do not have the slightest notion how you came to possess such dark, hateful and heinous thoughts as would lead you to carry out this butchery. But you need to know it has nothing to do with Christ, nor the Faith which bears His name. Do not use the cloak of true religion to justify your deeds. The Savior you claim to know, said that “out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.” Matthew 15:19 (ESV) Your actions came neither from Him, nor His Bible – but out of your own dark, lost, perverse, sin-bound heart. This is your wickedness purely and simply – and not God’s command to you in any way, shape or form. God is a God who forgives. Even the chief of sinners. But such forgiveness belong to none who continue to justify their wickedness under whatever guise. You exemplify the wickedness in all of us. Why it is we need a Savior to begin with. Now is the time to recognize that all you have thought and done has nothing to with serving God, and everything to do with fostering and giving in to the depravity which remains yours and untouched apart from Christ Jesus. We plead with you to repent – to own your evil – and to seek the mercy of God. I pray it is not too late.

    Lastly – to us all. Let us be ware, that the seeds of such sin remain in the breast of us all. Let us not point the finger without remembering that apart from sovereign grace, we would be given over to the crimes no less shocking and heinous than these. Breivik’s crimes are but the symptoms of the same disease we all carry.

    Let us be quick to condemn such things – loudly and publicly as as adverse and antithetical to all things Christian as they can be. Let us never condone any such wickedness in the name of Christ.

    Let us learn to hate our own sin and strive constantly to put the deeds of the flesh to death within us personally.

    Let us guard our hearts lest our fears of global movements and changes – like the perceived rise of Islamic influence, lead us to respond in fear rather than faith, and in human hatred rather than in love for our God and our neighbors.

    Let us be ever more fervent about the Gospel. Let us be clear that all men are sinners, and there is no hope for any of us apart from Christ. Let us be like the Apostle Paul who reminded the Corinthians that

    he “decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified.” 1 Corinthians 2:2 (ESV) Not Americanization, Western Culture or even American Evangelical culture – but Christ.

    Let us hold up the victim’s families in prayer. Let us not be in the least dispassionate toward their suffering, and keenly aware that the name of our Savior was – however egregiously – attached to these events in some way.

    Let us learn true spiritual warfare – and bring it back to the place it belongs in our thinking. We cannot change the world through politics, violence, war or force – but through preaching and living the Gospel of Jesus Christ. We fight on our knees – pleading for souls. We fight in our praise, making the glories of Christ known. We fight in our walking in righteousness for His name’s sake. We fight by walking in the light of His Word – which leads us ever and always to Christ. We fight by faith – believing and trusting His promises, and refusing to trust in the arm of man. We fight by loving in Christ.

  • Elijah’s Lament

    July 29th, 2011

    1 Kings 19:4 (ESV) But he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness and came and sat down under a broom tree. And he asked that he might die, saying, “It is enough; now, O Lord, take away my life, for I am no better than my fathers.”

    Hebrews 12:1–2 (ESV) Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

    My sin!

    Oh, the weight of it.

    The madness of its remaining.

    The sadness of its recurring eruptions.

    The weariness of refusing its draw.

    The helplessness of self to hold fast.

    The cyclic grief of failure.

    Lord hold!

    You alone can bear me.

    The wonder of your patience.

    The joy of your continual cleansing.

    The hope of your promises.

    The strength of your saving grace.

    The perpetual shadow of the cross.

  • Bridezillas of Christ

    July 27th, 2011

    Proverbs 27:15–16 (ESV)

    15 A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;

    16 to restrain her is to restrain the wind or to grasp oil in one’s right hand.

    Is this what it is like for Christ to dwell with His Bride? Are we the quarrelsome wife? Dissatisfied with every providence. Straining against every place we dwell? Complaining over every little thing which is not to our liking? Are our prayers more like the annoying drip, drip, drip of a rainy day? Do this, do that, not this way, not that way, more of this, less of that, something different than what I have, other than what I had, on and on and on? He may as well be trying to pick up a gallon of oil in His right hand or try to put the wind in a box as bring us to stability and contentment.

    Heavenly Father, forgive me. It must seem to you like my prayers are just like this continual dripping. Please open my blind eyes to see the wisdom and love behind every one of your appointments for my life. Forgive me for my complaining heart, my unsatisfiable desires. Teach me the secret of true contentment, of not only yielding to travel the roads you have put before me, but to rejoice in your sovereign choice of them. Let me find my highest joy in you personally far above anything you can do for me. Let me lavish in your love – and let me be filled with it, lest the bitter, rancid morsels the World holds out to me seem worthy of the least consideration.

    Make me more like Jesus. 

  • Beyond Belief

    July 16th, 2011

    Prov. 16:4 The Lord has made everything for its purpose, even the wicked for the day of trouble.

    Acts 17:26-27 And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us.

    Bad eyes? Constant struggle with weight? Abandoned? Hurt? Poor? Wealthy? Too short? Bald? Too attractive to be taken seriously? No pedigree? Wrong ethnicity? Birth defect? Challenged? Poor hearing? Diabetic? Lack ambition? Lonely? Only liked for your money or influence? Dumped at the altar? Bullied? Abused? Betrayed? Uneducated? Handicapped?

    God has graciously & wisely given us each and every circumstance – from our physical strengths and weaknesses, to our positive and negative circumstantial environments – that we might be brought face to face with the conditions best suited to maximize the exposure of the sin within us that needs dealt with, as it hinders Christ’s likeness within us.

    On one side, it takes very penetrating hurts to go deep enough to uncover and expose the most buried and protected sins. On the other side, it takes very great privileges and pleasures to expose other of the deepest sins buried in our hearts.

    How then, will we respond? Will we use His “gifts” to grow? Or will they serve as our chief excuses to remain as we are?

  • “Not a Lot to Say” – An open letter to the Huffington Post re: Greg Carey’s article

    July 11th, 2011

    After reading an article recently in the Huffington Post – (READ THE ARTICLE HERE)

    I could not help but respond to Professor Greg Carey’s assertion, the Bible has little to say about marriage. Greg Carey is Professor of New Testament at Lancaster Theological Seminary in Lancaster PA (a UCC school – bio HERE).

    Dear Editors:

    I want to applaud the Huffington Post for being willing to ask and address the question which headed the 7/7/2011 edition article: “What Does the Bible Actually Say About Marriage?” A timely and important topic.

    And, I’d like to say how much I appreciated Professor Carey’s irenic tone and his willingness to step up to the plate in pointing out that some of the commonly perceived “marriage” passages in the Bible aren’t passages about marriage at all! – like 1 Corinthians 13. Bravo! Carelessness in reading the Scriptures carefully and in a contextually sensitive manner, breeds all kinds of misinterpretations. Worse, it breeds an approach to the Bible we wouldn’t tolerate in any other
    literature. Professor Carey is spot on when he notes that:

    “Unfortunately, many Christians use the Bible to support their own prejudices and bigotry.” I might add that not only some Christians do this – but some self-professed non-Christians engage in the practice at times too. Sad.

    When Theodor Geisel, writing as Dr. Seuss penned “The Cat in the Hat” – he did not imagine (nor do we ordinarily) assume others might read that line as implying that it contained a polemic against the psychological mistreatment of house pets through systematic imprisonment in disorientating millinery prisons designed to keep them from climbing the evolutionary ladder. It was a fun tome about a mischievous feline protagonist. Biblical statements seldom fair as well at the hands of some – even those who would profess to be its adherent and defenders.

    Imagine my surprise then when I reached the article’s section headed by the words: “Not a Lot to Say.” I must confess a certain amount of mystification over Prof. Carey’s assertion here. The implication that the Bible simply does not have much to say about marriage, is in my limited understanding, grossly inaccurate. I should like to understand the unit of measure used in arriving at that conclusion. We might say the United States Constitution does not have “a lot” to say about the “right to privacy” – but few in our day would argue that so little said (some argue nothing said, but indirectly) implies the concept is of little importance, or that what IS said isn’t vital to interpreting how the Constitution applies.

    So when I consider how the Bible treats the establishment of marriage and its fundamental elements in Genesis2:19-25; It’s repeated demonstration of the failure of polygamous relationships (it never whitewashes the attendant problems); God’s emphatic prohibition of adultery (Ex. 20:14, Deut. 5:18 with other allusions); God’s prohibition of sex outside of the marriage covenant and the extensive and detailed parameters instituted regarding legitimate and illegitimate sexual partners and marriageability (see the entire context of Leviticus 18:1-23); The Bible’s repeated treatment of the betrayal of God’s People’s relationship with God in terms of adultery (myriads of passages but most explicitly and extensively portrayed in the book of Hosea); Jesus’ explicit teaching on the nature of the marriage relationship by limiting legitimate divorce to cases of adultery (Matthew 19:3-9); Jesus’ explanation that not everyone can remain single but only those “to whom it is given” (Matt. 19:11);  The Apostle Paul’s extensive treatment of marriage issues in 1 Corinthians 7 – 40 packed verses worth!; Paul’s far from “ugly” but transcendent exposition of the keys to a harmonious marriage relationship in
    Ephesians 5:22-33) when he shows proper arrangement and order (with submission by the way – NOT subjugation – but good order); Peter’s call to husbands to treat their wives NOT as spiritual inferiors, but as the equals they are before God with honor and cherishing them as finer vessels than they (1 Peter 3:1-17); and then the pervasive typology that the Bible employs to describe the Savior’s relationship with His Church in the framework of monogamous, committed marriage with inviolable fidelity and faithfulness (Eph. 5:25-32; Rev. 19:7; 21:2 & 9; 22:17); and a host of other references and allusions – when I consider that (and more) I gasp – “Not a Lot to Say”? Preposterous! Volumes to say. And not a word of over-romanticized fluff, but nuts and bolts reality having to do with every aspect of the marital relationship.

    Contrary to the good professor, I must insist the Bible has plenty to say about marriage, and the gift it is from the hand of God – whether or not one comes from the Judaic or Christian traditions.

    As an Evangelical Christian, I have come to count the privilege, the honor, the deep spiritual significance and the wonder of this phenomenal thing called marriage precisely because the Bible has so much to say about it.

    Pick it up, read it, and be amazed.

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