Margin notes: Things I scribbled in the white spaces on Nov. 27, 2K9.

“Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” (Proverbs 27:5, ESV)

It has taken science, in the fields of Psychiatry and Psychology, thousands of years to catch up to this passage. In Psychological terms, this would be stated as : “Children would rather be disciplined than ignored.” Its true.

The human soul, made to love God and be loved by Him, languishes in torment when it does not even receive God’s appointed tributary means through the love of other humans. Oh how we hate one another when we will not respond at all. We’d rather have open and humiliating rebuke, than to be so disregarded as to not even warrant that.

How painful then is hidden love. Perhaps you love your spouse, child, parent etc. – but do THEY know it? Do they have proof positive from you? Do YOU tell them and show them – not leaving either of those two necessities unexpressed?

As we take on the image of Christ, more and more we are bidden not to disregard anyone – but to love them, and so as to make them know it is love. God not only providentially cares for us, He speaks His love to us in His Word. We must have both.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” (John 13:34, ESV)

“By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”” (John 13:35, ESV)

““This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” (John 15:12, ESV)

“These things I command you, so that you will love one another.” (John 15:17, ESV)

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.” (Romans 12:10, ESV)

“Now concerning brotherly love you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another,” (1 Thessalonians 4:9, ESV)

“Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart,” (1 Peter 1:22, ESV)

“Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.” (1 Peter 4:8, ESV)

” For this is the message that you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another.” (1 John 3:11, ESV)

“And this is his commandment, that we believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us.” (1 John 3:23, ESV)

” Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.” (1 John 4:7, ESV)

“Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” (1 John 4:11, ESV)

“No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John 4:12, ESV)

“And now I ask you, dear lady—not as though I were writing you a new commandment, but the one we have had from the beginning—that we love one another.” (2 John 5, ESV)

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